Happy Days

So how do you know when you are truly happy? Is it when things go your way and you catch a break for a while, or is it that idealistic time when everything is perfect? The truth is we are never truly happy. It’s like as soon as life realises you are happy it’s time for sabotage to make you struggle and have you start all over. You know like in monopoly, you go around the board but you always go passed start to try again to make things better. The thing is life is hard and at times you feel like you will never be able to breathe again , but with time things get easier and more bearable you realise that your problems get smaller and insignificant, the get replaced with harder challenges and each time you come out that much  stronger. So truly every person feels happy in their own screwed up way in their dysfunctional lives, but I don’t we would be happy living the idealistic life.

skank day

Once in a while you get a skank day- it’s when normal sweet innocent girls act skankish and the real true skanks take a backseat and watch these girls make fools of themselves. What is your definition of a skank??

For me it’s quite simple, every girl has a little bit of skank in her. The girl in the committed relationship who sneaks glances at the amazingly attractive guy in her class and flashes him her best smile, the one that’s a tomboy that keeps reassuring you that she doesn’t have a crush on her friend but when they’re alone she’ll try many methods to see if he feels the same most times he picks up on it and gets freaked out, right to that full blown skank who flirts with guys knowing her boyfriend is around, talks dirty and rude with guys, and hugs and throws herself at her supposed best friend and uses that as an excuse. The shocking thing is a skank can pick up on another full blown skank doing the exact same things as she does yet she thinks she is better and assumes she has more class. What a joke really.

There’s one type of person that I don’t find skanky it’s that best friend of yours that has the courage to tell you that they have feelings for your ex or for that insane crush you  had at the beginning of the year that went nowhere. It’s true that the forbidden fruit always taste that much better and knowing that you can’t have something makes you want it that much more. I mean think about it, how did you make the friends you have?? It’s based on having the same likes and dislikes and getting along, so doesn’t that mean that you would have similar taste in guys too? Makes sense. So what’s wrong with her being with an ex or crush if you have moved on? It’s all about territory but I’ll leave it at this would you rather see your ex or crush with a full blown skank who will rub it in your face and just hurt him, or would you choose your sweet honest friend who wouldn’t hurt someone you cared dearly for?